The most harmful habits
Today we are going to talk about the most harmful and destructive human habits. Which habits are really destroys our soul, keep us away from success, happiness and wellness. But this article is not about scums, this article is about average educated and intelligent persons. They don`t have drug or alcohol addiction, but they are still unhappy. So they have other kinds of habits, which make them cheerless.
Absolutely, smoking, drinking alcohol and taking drugs are really destructive habits. Likely such lifestyle can ruin a person’s life and his family life. But to my mind, in the modern world people have another worse habits.
Bad psychological habits
Actually there are not so many alcoholics, especially real drug addicts in the world. No doubt, people from disadvantaged areas mostly suffer from it. But practically, over the years the amount of alcoholics, drug addicts and smokers is becoming less and less.
But even if people are getting rid of such evident habits, they are still not satisfied with their life. So what are the real problems of the modern society? Which psychological bad habits prevent a person from being happy and enjoy his life?
From my point of view, the worst habit destroys not only your body, but your soul. Such habits leads to total personality degradation. Smoking, drinking and taking drugs are only external problems, and such problems are visible. But if a person quit such kind of habits he will not become happy by default. There are lots of successful and happy people who smoke or drink alcohol and they can even live a long life. Therefore such habits are not the worst. Really harmful habits destroy soul and make life pointless. And in this article you will learn about these habits.
The most destructive habit
Оne of the negative habit is to listen and take to your heart words of someone who has doubts about your ideas, plans, dreams, someone who doesn’t believe in you. Even if your relatives or close friends are one of those, you shouldn’t take it serious. No doubt, it’s much better when your loved ones support and motivate you, but even if they don’t do this for some reasons, you must be responsible for your life, listen to your heart and follow your dreams or you won’t achieve anything in your life. Don’t listen to the people who think you don’t deserve happiness.
To be in relationship with someone you don’t like or they don’t like you
Here is another bad habit – wasting time on someone you don’t like, or on someone doesn’t like you. When you spend time on relationship destined to fail you can miss a chance to meet your real love. Bear in mind, if you are meant to be together with someone, he/she will never leave you, if you are not meant to be together, in any case he/she will leave you. Unhappy relationship reduce self-assessment and ruin the mood. “Better be alone, than with whoever” – famous quotes by philosopher and poet Omar Khayyam.
Such common habit like watching TV is not the worst abuse of the modern people. There are another bad habits of losers which prevent them from successful life. One of this habit is always being late. If you are always come late you can’t manage your time and life. When you can’t manage your time and life you don’t run things , things run you. At least, it creates a bad impression on you. Serious men won’t run business with you, because this habit shows that you are irresponsible and unreliable person who doesn’t keep his word.
More than that, if you don’t come on time you demonstrate your disrespect to the person waiting for you. It will be much better if you come 5 or 10 minutes earlier and listen to some of audiobooks while waiting.
Destructive habit of doing things at the last moment
The second habit of losers is to do everything in the nick of the time. Probably, you were doing this when you were a student, and probably since that time nothing changes – you still put off doing important tasks. In fact, for the limited time you could really do three times more things, if you really wanted it, because somehow you are able to fulfill it in the last moment.
In addition, when you do everything in a hurry the quality of your work leaves much to be desired. So if you are not in a rush, get on with tasks, do it immediately – the quality of your work increases and your income too. And certainly your career will take off.
You haven’t found your true calling yet if you are stuck in your job and don’t work effectively. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to be successful at work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found the job that inspire you, keep looking.
And trust me, if you find it you would not face with such problems anymore. If you really love someone, you never ask them to wait for a month, then come and spend time with him the whole day to make up for lost time. Because you want to see them every day and it’s your own desire.
The worst habit
Negative thinking – the ability to see only bad sides or weaknesses in someone is one of the worst person’s habit. Even in Bible was written “Let it be done for you according to your faith!”. So if you think that you will fail, don’t surprise that it will come true. Don’t complain about faith. When you see only bad sides in your wife or your child, they will not become better, they will prove, that you are right. But what do you really want? To be right or happy?
The most harmful habit
But if you are critical not only of others, if you are critical of yourself – everything is pointless, even if you get rid of all the bad habits mentioned above. you’ll never be successful and happy in your life until you don’t believe in yourself.
Even in accordance with the main confession “Love the neighbor as yourself” means you have to love yourself by default.
That’s why if you really want to be happy, believe in yourself, believe in people important to you. Forbid yourself to think about negative things, gain experience and learn from your mistakes and so it will help you to avoid more serious mistakes on the way to your happiness. Don’t run away from your happiness, try to notice and feel it.
To sum up, you should be aware of all the bad habits. Anyhow, it has bad effect on peoples’ lives. So control yourself, read books, draw, play the musical instrument and so on. In one word – keep moving, never stop, be self-confident and always look on the bright side.
So I strongly recommend you to get rid of all psychological habits mentioned above. Clear your mind and other habits will disappear automatically because you will become healthy, happy and conscious person. And I sincerely wish you that.